Recently I began to notice how often I had heard the phrase “let me unpack this.” Usually coming from my pastor or some other speaker, meaning let me explain it in more detail so that you will understand.
So I began thinking, how often do we think this way when it comes to communicating with our spouse? Do we carefully unpack what we are thinking and feeling. Paying careful attention as we bring out one item at a time and placing it where it belongs? Or do we unload everything with emotional force and furry, without regard to who will get hurt? Continue reading